Tuesday, July 15, 2008

LiveStrong

Well as many of you know i have been talking about LiveStrong ride and how i was going to do a century (100 miles). Well it was on Sunday!! Turned out to be a wonderful event!!

Let me take you back to sat and we can walk through the weekend. Sat morning me and Andrew Steelman (a.k.a. Andy) woke up in the morning and packed up all our gear and loaded the bikes on top of his car and set out!! We had a wonderful time in the car goofing off and getting excited about the wonderful event that we were going to be apart of. Well we got to San Jose and pulled up to the Hilton and checked in and took the bikes and our bags to our room. Now it was time to go and check in!! we go searching for the event center which was attached to the hotel. It took us a little while but we found it!! we went in and i had to pay the rest of what was left for my $250 cause i forgot to help my boss with making a donation. Then we went and picked up our packets full of goodies and our number tags. After this we go right out side the event center doors were our wonderful team captin Pam Whitehead had a table distributing the team Triumph jersey's and T-Shirts.

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Thanks for all the hard work you put in Pam you did a great job and i wish i would have been my normal non shy self. Its ok though cause i will see you next month at R.F.A.R.


after all this we headed up to the room and started tuning and cleaning our bikes up for the big day. All of the sudden i realized i forgot my knee brace and trying to be a tough guy that i am not lol i was telling Andy i will be ok without it. Well he did what most best friends would do he told me come one lets go get one. so we did we went to the mall and found a sports authority and i bought me a better one than i had at home.

Well it was getting about dinner time after we got the knee brace so we decided to go to California Pizza Kitchen where we did not get pizza. instead it got thai linguini w/ chicken and a new castle.




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When the stomach's were full we headed back to the room to finish working on our bikes pin up our jerseys that were printed for us buy our great sponsor blamelessclothing.com.


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after this we went to bed cause we were going to have a early morning!!

Now we are at the big day Sunday morning at 5am. Andy and i get ready and head downstairs for breakfast. we had oatmeal and banana's. then we headed up to the room to get our spandex and jerseys on, grab our bikes and gear and head down to take our team picture.

right after team picture it was time to get in the lanes.


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we had 3 people in front of us at at the start!!


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after we all got in our lanes and got settled and it was getting closer to go time they brought out Lance Armstrong to give a few words before we set out!!


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Then he rolled out on his bike and we all took off!! Andy and I had a rough day ahead. It was one of the best days of my life though. I knew i was there for a reason and it was way better than the pain i would put my body through. Thank you Andy for making me get a knee brace i would not have made it without.

Me being the Geek i am turning into and with the request from Jerad Hill i brought my phone with me and Twittered along the way when i could. Which was cool cause it updated my facebook status and let alot of my friends know how we were doing!!

you can follow me at http://twitter.com/llightner and Jerad at http://twitter.com/jeradhill

The first 30 miles was great had a ton of energy legs felt strong and there was a great little downhill section where i could have ended the day. I kinda forgot i was not mountain biking and didn't make a turn and ended up going through a pile of leafs and up on a dirt embankment. I forgot how dangerous this is on a road bike untill a fellow rider rode up asked if i was ok and told me that was a nice save.

In the next section Andy and I decided we would ride with a group of guys that was rolling out of the power stop. little did we know they were averaging between 22 and 24mph and we were avg 15-18 at this point. we rode with them for quite a while. it was about 13 miles then we fell of and slowed down cause we knew we had to save some energy!!

At mile 56 we pulled into another powerstop and took a significant break cause in the next 15 miles we had metcalf the hill from the devil himself!! This hill got the best of alot of the riders. Alot of people just could not peddle up it and had to walk. I personally walked about 100 ft up it and then was like thats it i can do this! and finished the hill strong. (killed my knee but i did it) Andy rode the whole way. this hill was crazy it was a 12% grade for 1.8 miles straight. well I guess we can say the hill really tried Andy we were 1/3 of the way up when he noticed his front wheel was flat. This is the reason we cary tools and extra tubes and a pump with us. luckly I was able to stop one of the S.A.G. wagons and get a floor pump so we could get him to perfect tire presure.


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Well when we made it to the top of the hill (mile 70) there was a power stop where i took off my knee brace to let my knee breath for a moment then we picked up a spare tube and headed on our way. We had one more hill to climb not too bad then a long downhill back to flat land about 15 miles from the finish. We stopped at the last power stop at mile 91 and then we headed off with the little energy we had left.

Then we crossed the finish like on the survivor side opps. but the main thing was we made it!!

i called a few people afterwords and one of the people i called was Kristen Chacon. Her family did the 5k ride in honor of there Dad who is fighting cancer right now. When i was on the phone with her i hear Kevin (Kristen's Dad) in the background ask her to tell us thank you. At that moment all the time money and effort that i put into this event was worth it.

I want to give a special thanks to everyone who supported Andy and I weather it was encouragement, prayer, or financially. You really were not supporting us at all you were helping us support the cause.

Andy and I have decided we are going to do this event again next year and i encourage everyone to take part.

Next ride is coming up and this is a family event cause you ride as short or as far as you want.
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Monday, May 5, 2008

This weekend was amazing!!

Well to start off the busy weekend i got together with some of my friends and went to dinner and then to see "Maid of Honor".  I liked the movie!! It was the typical chick flick!!  then sat i set up for Jr. high service in the morning. after that i helped set up and run the blues on the field concert thing.  Well i had to leave that just a tad bit early to go to a wonderful concert!!!  Yes that is right i went to see Dream Theater!! Honestly i have been to a lot of concerts and this was by far one of the best i have ever seen!! those guys are so freakin talented!!

I could go on and on about the concert!! I felt bad for the first 3 bands!! Even though it is super cool that the bands get to play with Dream Theater it has to be the hardest band to open for cause you know going into it you are going to look bad once the headliner hits the stage!!

well yesterday was also a great day!! It started out hanging out with Jr. High kids and then evolved into going to Fresno and hanging out with people my age!! I had a great time in fresno!! Thank you Amy for the invite you are amazing!! I did miss all my friends at xrds but i should be back next week!! So be prepared!!
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Thursday, May 1, 2008

Friends?

Is it mean or rude to just invite some friends and not all?
What about saying NO when you are invited to go somewhere or do something?

I think the answer to both questions is NO? 

Sometimes you need a break from big groups! It is not like just cause you asked a couple friends and not all your friends that you like certain friends better!! It is sometimes easier to do things with a smaller group of people.  There is always something to do that anyone and everyone is invited to.

Something i really struggle with is saying No when people invite me somewhere!! I never feel like it would be rude to say no.  I just love hanging out with people. I am very much a people person.  I feel that the group of people i have hung out with lately feels that everyone always  needs to be there and will go as far as convincing  or at least trying to convince people that are not interested into hanging out.  I am guilty of this myself!!


I love my friends. I love being around them!  One thing I personally am realizing is you need time to yourself also! You need time in smaller groups of people to build a genuine relationships!!  The fact is people act different in big groups than they do when you hang out with just a couple people!! How are you supposed to build a true friendship and trust a person if you don't know the real them!!

Some may say you need to be yourself all the time and i agree!!  In big groups sometimes you limit your character as a person so that you don't offend the people that you are hanging out with! Some people they are shy in big groups! There are a million + reasons why people are a little different in a big group!


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Wednesday, April 30, 2008

What to do?

Well i am having a little trouble figuring out what i want to do this Sunday!! I have pretty much made up my mind that i want to get out of Modesto and just go somewhere by myself!!

The big problem is i am a social butterfly and don't ever do anything by myself!! So it makes it hard to figure out what to do!! I don't want to spend a ton of money on a day trip that i am going on by myself!! well thats almost impossible with gas prices!! lol The only thing i can come up with is going to the city!! I don't know!! the beach sounds nice too!! really i could go anywhere!!

What is the point of going on a little trip by yourself? That's a good question that i had to ask myself!! then i realized I am not going by myself!! It will be a father son day!! It will be a day to clear my head and focus on God!! A day where i can dig into his word and maybe even a little blue like jazz!!

I know one big possibility i could go hiking at one of my favorite spots!!
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Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Life Again

I decided to listen to Decyfer Down and this song Live Again came on and for once i really payed attention to the lyrics and they just kinda stuck out as this is really how i feel and what i am longing for!!

I don't remember the last time I could say
I was where I wanted to be
still you see through this mask
hiding all my flaws
you see something down deep in me...

Bring me back so that I can feel you again
take me to that place I was before
all I want is to hold my head up high
so take this life and set aflame again

Still I linger around
a life unchanged
I just cant break the cycle now
I feel I've lost my hope
trapped in my own mind
break these thoughts that are clouding me.

Bring me back so that I can feel you again
take me to that place I was before
all I want is to hold my head up high
so take this life and set aflame again

Again, Again,
set my life aflame again...

Bring me back so that I can feel you again
take me to that place I was before
all I want is to hold my head up high
so take this life and set aflame again

Bring me back so that I can feel you again
take me to that place I was before
all I want is to hold my head up high
so take this life and set aflame again


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Monday, April 28, 2008

Overwhelmed!! Time to turn to God!!

I have a lot of friends and a lot of stuff that i want to do!! The problem is i am one person!! I am very social and try to make it to any event that someone puts on!! but it doesn't always work!!

One thing that has been bugging me lately is i feel like i have blown off my best friends to do stuff with people that are more of aqatances!! I never want to be at the point i am where i am scheduling in time for my best friends!! I need to be available for them anytime!! I know that if something big happens i would drop everything and be by there side!! But why not be like that for the small things too!!

Another thing i have left out lately is time for myself!! Time to just reflect on what is going on in my life!! Time to relax and just let my body rejuvenate!!

The biggest thing that is bugging me is i have made my life so busy i have started to fade away and rely on myself instead of God!! Yes i have my time with him daily I have not stopped that but that is not enough!! I am laying it out here on Facebook right now hoping everyone reads this!! no matter who i like or likes me I can not get into a relationship with anyone till I get to a point of being able to depend on God for the littlest things!! I can not be a spiritual leader of a relationship if i can not even do it for myself right!!

There was a reason that God allowed me to be bugged and need a little time away from my friends and I believe That it was the message last night at first baptist!! When i Got there and heard the topic I was like why did i come this week? I didn't realize it till I spent a good chunk of time with God last night in bed just unable to sleep cause my brain would not shut off!! The topic was marriage Which if you know me seems like a crappy message to hear at this point in my life!! But really God took the message and communicated something else to me!! Is it possible that i blame to much of my past relationships going bad on someone else!! The biggest thing that got me was the fact that you have to have God as the center of your relationship!! The pastor did his best which in my opinion was a great job on just giving us a vision of how this looks!! He laid his marriage out on the table and just let everyone know what to look forward to and how he fails sometimes but his wife is always there to encourage him and put him back up in the spiritual leadership role!!

I have now three goals for this year and the priority of them changed today!!

1. focus on God more and make him the spiritual leader in my life so that one day i can date, eventually get married, have kids and be the spiritual leader God is calling me to be!!

2. Go to Arizona and visit friends that were there for me in one of the darkest times in my walk with God!! ( I truly love all of you guys and sorry i have not visited)

3. finish reading a book. I am currently reading blue like Jazz and i am on chapter 4!!
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Friday, April 25, 2008

Life What is new!!


Well as most people know i am no longer getting married!! i will give that a big yeahhh!!

I have picked up a couple new hobbies!! Yes my bikes, I have recently bought both a mountain bike and a road bike!! I love them both!! And for those wondering i do wear spandex when i ride my road bike!! Me and my buddy Andy decided that we would ride 100 miles this year!! I decided that i might as well sence i decided to blog about my Ride that i can just post my support letter!!

Here it is!!


Dear (put your name here)

My name is Lawrence Lightner.  I am 22 years old and I am sending you this letter because I am hoping to partner with you and the Livestrong Foundation.  The Livestrong program is designed to increase cancer awareness and raise money for research to cure this disease. There are several ways to get involved on many different levels. Here is a way that you and I can team together to support for the Livestrong program and more important raise awareness of cancer.

I will be riding my bike 100 miles in San Jose, California on July 13, 2008.  I have committed to raise $2,500 for the Lance Armstrong Foundation which was founded in 1997 by cancer survivor and champion cyclist, Lance Armstrong, to inspire and empower people affected bycancer.

More than 1.3 million people in the U.S. will be diagnosed with cancer this year
alone. Three out of four families in America will be faced with caring for a
family member with cancer. My family is one of those families.

I have not had cancer personally but I have been affected by it.  I have lost close family members and friends to cancer.  I remember being in high school watching my grandpa suffer as he tried to fight off the cancer.  I knew he wanted to give up but he fought for me and my family because we didn’t want to see him go.  I have lost a total of three people that I was close to. The thing that is driving me to do this ride though is not the people I have lost but the people that are being affected by cancer today.  I have two friends and one very close family member who have been diagnosed with cancer.

My best friend Andrew Steelman and I are being sponsored by Blameless Clothing.  We are printing custom jerseys for this event.  If you would be interested in some advertisement please email me at Lawrence@jdgrothe.com or if you would like to give a donation to the Livestrong foundation, visit the following website

http://sanjose08.livestrong.org/*/llightner.

Thank you for taking the time to read my letter.  Thank you in advance for your considering helping raise cancer awareness. 

Sincerely,

Lawrence Lightner


Me and Andy are starting to train for this ride!! We are riding on Sundays around the Modesto area so if you are a biker and want someone to ride with please let me know we are always looking for new people to ride with!!

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